Maybe niceness is the wrong metric, I said. Of course it's really about power, Bobbi agreed. But it's harder to work out who has the power, so instead we rely on 'niceness' as a kind of stand-in. I mean this is an issue in public discourse. We end up asking like, is Israel 'nicer' than Palestine. Sally Rooney
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The way we look at the world is completely biased. We look at the world through our own lens, which often reflects how we feel about ourselves. When we're feeling good, we tend to think that everyone else is friendly. When we're feeling bad, our tendency is to think that everyone else is unfriendly.

And that's just wrong. The people of Palestine are not unfriendly toward the State of Israel. To think so would be completely unthinking.

Source: Conversations With Friends

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